Reciprocal IVF – What Is It?

Reciprocal IVF is a type of IVF (in vitro fertilization) treatment that allows lesbian couples who do not have infertility to have a baby of their own. In this procedure, one of the female partners provide the eggs. These eggs are then fertilized with a qualified donor sperm which is taken from a sperm bank and the other female partner carries the pregnancy. Also called two-mom IVF or partner IVF, the procedure is highly appealing for many lesbian couples as it allows both partners to have physically and biologically connection with their baby.

Reciprocal IVF – How Is It Performed?

First of all, a known or unknown (clinic-recruited) sperm donor is chosen. When the sperm donor is chosen, it undergoes certain semen analysis, medical tests and detailed screening in case of the risk of sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV, syphilis, hepatitis, and gonorrhea. Meanwhile, both female partners start to synchronize their menstrual cycle by using a combination of contraceptive pills and Lupron. The partner who is to provide the eggs also takes some medications which promote her ovaries and supports the growth of the follicles. The eggs are fertilized by the donor sperm and the embryo is created. This fertilization process is called egg insemination. When the controlled stimulation of the ovaries end, the other partner who will carry the pregnancy (surrogate mother) takes preparatory medications for the transfer of the embryo. Finally, the surrogacy process begins by transferring the embryos to the partner who is to carry the baby. However, some of these embryos can be frozen if the couple considers having a future pregnancy.

Deciding on Reciprocal IVF Roles – Who Will Be The Surrogate?

Before a lesbian couple starts to have reciprocal IVF, choosing the one who will provide the egg and who will be the surrogate is the main concern. Although there are no strict rules to be able to be either of them, some factors play an extremely important role in choosing between. First of all, the age is a very important factor in deciding on who will be the egg provider. Because the younger the egg provider partner is, the more likely the quality of her eggs are to be high. And the more the quality of the eggs are high, the more the chance of pregnancy is high. Fertility status is also another important factor. Because, when choosing the surrogate, sometimes one of the partner’s uterus may be more suitable for egg retrieval or pregnancy than the other partner.

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Reciprocal IVF Legal Issues

The legal issues with reciprocal IVF are complex and vary by country to country. Unfortunately, same-sex parenting is legal only in a couple of countries such as Denmark, Belgium, Latvia, Finland, UK, Spain and the U.S.A. But, reciprocal IVF is not totally legal in the U.S.A and legality varies from state to state. For example, same-sex marriage and same-sex parenting are not legal in Lousiana. Reciprocal IVF in Greece is also legal. However, you should consult an experienced reproductive law professional in your country before you begin the process to have more detailed information about the legality of reciprocal IVF. In case of any disagreement or divorcement, courts may rule in favor of the surrogate mother if she wants to have the baby’s custody. So you should have a legal agreement with your partner beforehand.

Reciprocal IVF Success Rates

The success rates of lesbian IVF treatment depend greatly on the age of the woman providing the eggs. if she is under 35, the chance for pregnancy is likely to be high. Because using the eggs of a healthy and young woman increases the success rates of IVF treatments. Although the partner who will provide the eggs should undergo certain pre-secreening in case of any potential health problems and hereditary diseases, the younger she is the more the chance of pregnancy is. It is generally recommended to have   The success rates of reciprocal IVF are as the following:

  • 49% for women aged under 35
  • 36% for women aged under 35-37
  • 23% for women aged 38-39
  • 16% for women aged 40-42
  • 9% for women aged 43-44
  • 2% for women aged 45 and over

Reciprocal IVF Cost – Is It Covered by Insurance?

Reciprocal IVF insurance coverage is a big concern for lesbian couples. Most health insurances do not generally cover the cost of reciprocal IVF if there is not a medical necessity. Only a small percentage of the expenses of consultation, diagnostic tests doctor visits and medications for the surrogate may be covered. However, this may greatly vary from insurance to insurance because each health insurance has its own coverage policy and this coverage policy may even vary from country to country and carrier to carrier. Generally, the cost of lesbian IVF is almost equal to IVF cost both are almost identical procedures. So how much does reciprocal IVF cost? On average, lesbian IVF cost is around €20.000 and this cost may even reach € 50.000 when consultation and fertility medication expenses add. The costs may also vary widely among IVF centers.


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